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"A routine decreases the
decisions you need to make
and can provide security for the person with dementia."
A routine
decreases the decisions you need to make and can provide security for the
person with dementia. Keeping a routine can also help prompt the person into
remembering what they are meant to be doing, bringing order and structure to
confused daily life. For example:
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A daily
routine, which keeps the person active, may help them sleep at night
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Regular
toileting may reduce the chance of accidents occurring
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A warm bath
before bed.
Although a
routine can be helpful, keep things as normal as possible. As much as the
changing condition will allow, try to treat the person as you
did before the disease.
"Encouraging independence helps
maintain
self-respect and decreases your burden."
The person with
dementia should be encouraged to remain independent for as long as possible.
This helps maintain their self-respect and decreases your burden.
If the person
likes to go shopping on their own, and can still go out and return home
without getting lost, allow them to do so. Make sure that they have
appropriate identification and details of where they live. If you notice
patterns in their visits to shops, it might be worth explaining the person's
problem to shop managers and assistants. This could avoid any confrontation
or distress for everyone involved.
Don't
discourage the person from keeping pets, as this can provide companionship
and help keep them active. If the person cannot look after the pet, then try
to make arrangements where the person can
still see the pet on a regular basis.
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"Don't draw attention to failure
and avoid
confrontation by staying calm."
Any type of
conflict causes unnecessary stress on you and the person with dementia. Due
to the nature of the illness, people with dementia will invariably forget or
deny they have done something wrong or will behave badly. It is important
that you don't forget that this is a problem caused by the illness.
Avoid drawing
attention to failures and maintain a calm composure. If the person with
dementia does not know they have done something wrong, they will
automatically be defensive if confronted by you. This will only upset them
and can make the situation worse. Remember it is the disease's fault, not
the person's.
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"Avoid confusion and stress by
keeping things simple."
Try to make
things simple for the person with dementia. Don't offer too many choices, as
this may confuse and upset them. For example, in the early stages of the
disease, they may be able to dress themselves. But, as the disease
progresses, you will need to guide them and, eventually, clothe the person
yourself.
Similarly with
eating or washing, the person may not recall how to do these things. You
will need to simplify these daily tasks.
Having to
simplify daily routines can be very frustrating for you both. Remember it is
not the person's fault, but an effect of the dementia.
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"Make your home as safe as
possible."
As dementia progresses, loss
of physical coordination and memory increases the chance of injury, so you
should make your home as
safe as possible.
Common hazards include loose
or worn carpets, polished floors, broken or loose stair railings, trailing
electrical cables and clutter. Trying to avoid accidents is the main goal,
and if anything can be moved or made safer, then it is worth doing.
If the person with dementia
does fall, is in pain, and you are unable to help them up, try not to panic.
Keep calm, make the person as comfortable as possible, explaining what you
are doing (e.g. calling the doctor). Once help is on the way, continue
reassuring the person and keeping them comfortable.
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"Keeping active helps enhance
dignity, self-worth and
maintains physical and mental capabilities."
Some planned activities
can enhance a person's sense of dignity and self-worth by giving purpose and
meaning to life, as well as maintaining their existing physical and mental
capabilities.
Consider taking daily
walks with the person with dementia. These will keep you both fit and also
provide plenty of stimulation for conversation. Physical activity may also
help a person to sleep better at night.
If sociable, the person
should be encouraged to continue going out to restaurants or bars. Invite
friends and relatives around, although avoid large gatherings, as these may
be difficult for the person to cope with. A person may gain satisfaction
from using skills related to a previous occupation or hobby, for example,
gardening or house-keeping. As the disease progresses it will be harder to
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"People whose language becomes
impaired rely more
on other senses, such as touch and sight."
Communication becomes increasingly
difficult as the disease progresses.
It may be helpful if you:
- Make sure the person's senses - such as
eyesight and hearing - are not impaired. For example, spectacles may no
longer be of the right prescription, or a hearing aid may not function
properly
- Speak clearly, slowly, face to face and
at eye level
- Show love and warmth through hugs, if
this is comfortable for the person
- Pay attention to the person's body
language - people whose language is impaired communicate through
non-verbal means
- Be aware of your own body language
- Find out what combination of word
reminders / prompting words, guidance and demonstration is needed to
communicate effectively with the person
- Make sure you have the person's
attention before speaking.
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"Use memory aids to help the
person remember and avoid confusion."
One of the main problems with dementia is
the failure of short-term memory. This means that people can forget what has
just happened to them. For example, they may forget that they have just
eaten lunch and may ask for lunch again.
A useful way of helping someone cope with
memory loss is to create personalized 'memory joggers', such as message
boards, handy lists
and instruction sheets.
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Keep familiar objects in their usual
places, where they can be easily found.
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Make sure watches and clocks show the
correct time.
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Indicate today's date on any calendars,
perhaps by marking off the days as they pass.
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Put up a message board in a prominent
place and establish a habit of using it.
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Make a list of the day's activities and
put it in a place where it can be easily found. Encourage the person with
dementia to refer to it often and to tick off each activity as it is
completed.
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If the person with dementia has to be
left alone while you go out, leave a clear note saying where you have gone
and when you are due back. Try to establish a regular pattern so that your
absences are part of a routine.
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Put up photographs of family members
and close friends, all clearly named. Or add names to pictures in an album
and encourage the person to look at them often.
Research suggests that gently encouraging
a person with dementia to use their brain may help them. Make sure that he
or she is not overwhelmed by mental exercises such as reading, playing
games, painting - which could precipitate a crisis as the person realizes
that he or she can no longer do simple things. With this limitation in mind,
there is probably no harm, and possibly some benefit, in maintaining an
environment that provides stimulation.
The loss of short-term memory can be very
distressing. Rather than reminding people with dementia of what they have
just done, it may be more useful to try and enjoy things together at the
time of doing them.
This avoids upsetting both you and the person with dementia. Memory aids will not be so useful in the
later stages of dementia.
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